Preparation for the Healing Journey

July 28th, 2009

The Chafetz Chaim, a great Talmudic sage and one of the most prolific writers of the past century, wrote dozens of books geared to helping the Jewish people deal successfully with the spiritual issues of their troubled times. His books, written in a clear and interesting style, have been a source of inspiration to thousands of Jews the world over, and they remain so to this day.

Once a non-Jewish admirer of the Chafetz Chaim asked him, “Why don’t you use your tremendous talent to write novels? There’s no question that your works would be best-sellers, and you would make a fortune!”

In response, the Chafetz Chaim told him the following parable.

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The 72 Facets of Human Personality

July 1st, 2009

The second level of the Healing Pathways model is the human personality. The human personality is varied and richly complex; it includes 72 individual traits (see Kuntres Shivim Kochot Ha’Adam LehaGra, by Rav Yaakov Mordechai Greenwald). These 72 traits fall within ten energetic categories:

1. Potential

2. Elemental

3. Temperaments

4. Centering

5. Developmental

6. Sensory

7. Emotional

8. Integrative

9. Focusing

10. Intellectual

These traits represent the various abilities and talents God has given man as the means through which to connect with and actualize his potential. They allow him to process stimuli from the environment to strengthen and enhance his essential self, and they enable him to project his individual perceptions out to the world, allowing him to influence his environment in positive ways and to achieve his unique purpose in life.

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Connecting to Your Essential Intrinsic Self

June 30th, 2009

There is an old story about how the Allies decided to take over a certain tropical island as a base after World War II. They brought in three officers to manage the operation – a German, an American and a Japanese. Supervision over day-to-day operations was assigned to the German, human resources to the American, and supplies to the Japanese. For several months the three officers were left to run the base on their own. Then one day a general came by to check the status of the operations. He posted a message to the effect that he wished to speak with all three officers on the day of his arrival.

At the meeting he asked the German for a rundown of the daily schedule. With typical German efficiency, the officer immediately produced a file with printed documentation for the entire time period. The general then asked the American about human resources, and the American presented him with a flowchart of goals and accomplishments for all workers on the island.

The general was fully satisfied with their efficiency and analyses of the situation. He then looked around for the Japanese officer, who was nowhere to be found. Puzzled, the general questioned the others: “So where’s that Japanese chap?”

Somewhat flustered, they replied, “We don’t really know … we haven’t seen him since the first day of the assignment.”

For lack of a better option, they offered to take the general on a grand tour of the island. Suddenly, as they entered a dense forest, the Japanese officer jumped out at them. Waving his hands vigorously, he smiled and shouted to the general, “Supplise!

In general, life is full of surprises. The biggest surprise by far is that life’s ability to surprise us is what supplies us with the capacity to hope and the will to move forward.

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The Hologram Principle

May 17th, 2009

The fourth element of the Healing Pathways model is the hologram principle. This principle expresses the concept that every category of our environment, every facet of our personality and every aspect of our personal perception includes every other category, facet and aspect, and is integrated harmoniously with each one.

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Alignment – Creating Positive Change

April 28th, 2009

The fifth level of the Healing Pathways model, and the basis of all healing, is alignment. Our world operates on the principle of duality. States of duality, such as life versus death, peace versus war, wisdom versus foolishness, wealth versus poverty, and so on (Sefer Yetzirah Mishnah 2), add both interest and conflict to our existence. Duality exists in the context of process and time: there is a time to be born, a time to die, a time to plant, a time to harvest… (Koheles 3:2). Moreover, there is relativity within duality: You can have a hard day or an absolutely terrible day, a pretty dress or a gorgeous dress; one can live life intensely or in an easygoing manner.

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